Let’s talk about something real and sometimes tricky:deciphering the energy you get from a man. Is he vibing with your soul, or is he just hooked on the surface stuff? It’s easy to get tangled up in feelings, but your inner knowing has the answers. It’s time to tap into that intuition and see the situation with divine clarity.
Sensing the Difference: Love vs. Lust
Lust is often quick, hot, and focused outwards – on your physical form, the chase, the immediate gratification. It feels good in the moment, sure, but does it resonate deeply? Does it nourish your spirit? Usually not. It’s about taking energy, not sharing or co-creating it. Think flashy energy, maybe a bit possessive, very here and now. It doesn’t see the real you, the light that shines from within.
Love, on the other hand, has a different vibration entirely. It’s about connection, respect, patience, and seeing your whole being – your mind, your heart, your quirks, your past, and your radiant future. It’s quieter, deeper, a slow burn that feels like coming home. It’s supportive energy. It focuses on your well-being and growth, not just their own desire. Love is a recognizing of souls, a resonance beyond the physical. When someone loves you, they want to know you, not just have you. The energy feels expansive, safe, and nurturing.
How to Spot Lust Energy
- It’s Superficial: The conversations stay light or physical. He’s more focused on how you look, what you wear, or getting you alone.
- It’s Conditional: Attention might disappear when the opportunity for physical intimacy isn’t present.
- It’s Impatient: He pushes for things quickly, not respecting your boundaries or your pace.
- It Lacks True Interest: He doesn’t ask deep questions about your dreams, fears, or feelings. He talks more about himself or superficial topics.
- The Energy is Tense or Grabby: You might feel a subtle (or not so subtle!) energy of wanting to take something from you, rather than just be with you.
How to Spot Love Energy
- It’s Respectful: He honors your boundaries, your feelings, and your time.
- It’s Supportive: He genuinely cares about your happiness, your goals, and your well-being. He encourages you.
- It’s Patient: Love understands that connection builds over time and is willing to invest the effort without immediate expectations.
- It’s Attentive: He listens, remembers details, and is curious about your inner world.
- The Energy is Expansive and Gentle: You feel safe, seen, and uplifted in his presence. The energy flows freely and nurturingly.
What to Do When You Recognize Both (or Just Lust)
Okay, real talk. What if you sense the lust energy, even if there are sparks of something else? Or what if it’s just lust? First, gentle friend, honor your knowing. That little whisper inside? That’s your divine intuition guiding you.
If you recognize the lust energy and that’s not what you desire (because you’re calling in a beautiful, soulful connection, right?!), trust yourself and create space. It’s okay to politely step back. You are worthy of love that sees all of you. Do not dim your light or compromise your path just for fleeting attention.
If you sense both – maybe potential for deeper connection but definitely present lust – the key is clear communication and firm boundaries, guided by your intuition. You can express your desire for a genuine connection and observe how he responds. Does he respect your pace? Does his energy shift to meet you on a deeper level? Or does he revert to type? His response is your answer. Protect your energy fiercely. Your path to joy and abundance requires aligning with people whose intentions resonate with your highest good.
Remember, darling heart, you are magnetic. You attract what you are, and what you believe you are worthy of. When you deeply know your value and what true, soulful connection feels like, it becomes so much easier to spot the difference. Trust the energy you feel, it rarely lies. Your intuition is your built-in truth detector. Use it.
Trust Your Vibes and Take Inspired Action
Discerning between love and lust isn’t about being cynical; it’s about being energetically intelligent and honoring your own worth. By tuning into the subtle vibrations and recognizing the signs, you empower yourself to choose connections that truly nourish your soul and align with the joyful, abundant life you are manifesting.
