You are now being recognized as someone who has their eyes set on a prize. Slow and steady wins the race. You could have been very anxious in the past, moved a little too quickly, and made some crazy mistakes. The person you are today is grounded, less reactive, and more emotionally mature. You understand that something worth having takes time; rushing won’t do anything but leave room for mistakes. People miss the old version of you that didn’t pay attention to details. You may have been driven by emotions that they had control over. These people loved you then. Oh, you were so easy to manipulate. You just couldn’t see it at first, but now you do. In the past, they could get over on you quickly and easily.
You’re now bringing these people to shame through your change. You’re becoming a version of yourself that doesn’t give up, and it’s showing. People are realizing that they can’t treat you the same way because you won’t allow it. These same people who picked on you and took advantage of your kindness are feeling the power of this transformation. Many of them have never encountered someone who has healed and stood up for themselves in such a noble way.
This is turning them off from individuals in their lives who are nothing like you. You are a once-in-a-lifetime experience for some of these family, friends, lovers, and coworkers, and they took advantage of it. Your kindness is what makes you a good person. They let their own demons take control. But either way, you’re doing better, and I’m proud of you!
